Just found this on another forum, and I thought it had to be shared
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Top ten myths about
introverts
Myth #1 – Introverts don’t
like to talk.
This is not true. Introverts
just don’t talk unless they
have something to say.
They hate small talk. Get
an introvert talking about
something they are
interested in, and they
won’t shut up for days.
Myth #2 – Introverts are
shy.
Shyness has nothing to do
with being an Introvert.
Introverts are not
necessarily afraid of
people. What they need is
a reason to interact. They
don’t interact for the sake
of interacting. If you want
to talk to an Introvert, just
start talking. Don’t worry
about being polite.
Myth #3 – Introverts are
rude.
Introverts often don’t see
a reason for beating
around the bush with
social pleasantries. They
want everyone to just be
real and honest.
Unfortunately, this is not
acceptable in most
settings, so Introverts can
feel a lot of pressure to fit
in, which they find
exhausting.
Myth #4 – Introverts don’t
like people.
On the contrary,
Introverts intensely value
the few friends they have.
They can count their close
friends on one hand. If
you are lucky enough for
an introvert to consider
you a friend, you probably
have a loyal ally for life.
Once you have earned
their respect as being a
person of substance,
you’re in.
Myth #5 – Introverts don’t
like to go out in public.
Nonsense. Introverts just
don’t like to go out in
public FOR AS LONG.
They also like to avoid the
complications that are
involved in public
activities. They take in
data and experiences very
quickly, and as a result,
don’t need to be there for
long to “get it.†They’re
ready to go home,
recharge, and process it
all. In fact, recharging is
absolutely crucial for
Introverts.
Myth #6 – Introverts
always want to be alone.
Introverts are perfectly
comfortable with their
own thoughts. They think
a lot. They daydream.
They like to have
problems to work on,
puzzles to solve. But they
can also get incredibly
lonely if they don’t have
anyone to share their
discoveries with. They
crave an authentic and
sincere connection with
ONE PERSON at a time.
Myth #7 – Introverts are
weird.
Introverts are often
individualists. They don’t
follow the crowd. They’d
prefer to be valued for
their novel ways of living.
They think for themselves
and because of that, they
often challenge the norm.
They don’t make most
decisions based on what is
popular or trendy.
Myth #8 – Introverts are
aloof nerds.
Introverts are people who
primarily look inward,
paying close attention to
their thoughts and
emotions. It’s not that
they are incapable of
paying attention to what
is going on around them,
it’s just that their inner
world is much more
stimulating and rewarding
to them.
Myth #9 – Introverts don’t
know how to relax and
have fun.
Introverts typically relax at
home or in nature, not in
busy public places.
Introverts are not thrill
seekers and adrenaline
junkies. If there is too
much talking and noise
going on, they shut down.
Their brains are too
sensitive to the
neurotransmitter called
Dopamine. Introverts and
Extroverts have different
dominant neuro-
pathways. Just look it up.
Myth #10 – Introverts can
fix themselves and
become Extroverts.
Introverts cannot “fix
themselves†and deserve
respect for their natural
temperament and
contributions to the
human race. In fact, one
study (Silverman, 1986)
showed that the
percentage of Introverts
increases with IQ.